Glimpses of God (2018)

The weekly Glimpses of God are opportunities to recognize, with greater clarity,the presence of God in the various places, people, events, situations and circumstances of your daily life. I offer them to you as an opportunity to reflect on how much God, as you understand Him, is a part of your life,how He chooses to use you and how you have chosen Him.They are glimpses because we can miss them if we are not paying attention. But if we open our heart to His love, if we open our ears to hear His gentle voice, if we open our eyes to see His light, if we open our hands to feel His hand in ours, and if we are open to share these gifts with others, then we too are being a Glimpse of God to those in our family, community, neighborhood, church and world. I hope that you  enjoy not only the Glimpse but also the daily reflections. Please share any comments on my blog page

                               

Glimpse of God for the week of May 13th

Happy Mother’s Day to all of you who are moms, grand-moms, single moms, widows, foster moms and single women who also exude the qualities that our Blessed Mother possessed and passed on to you: Love for others, compassion, a joyful heart, a giving spirit, and a nurturing woman of faith. Thanks for being that to all of those you have encountered and may you know that your mother is proud of you as she continues to walk with you here on earth or looks down from heaven.

My glimpse of God for this week comes from my eye doctor, Dr. Strine, OD, 

This week I was in the way of our cat Cannoli as she got spooked and used me as a spring board. Unfortunately, as she did this, she managed to slice my eyelid with her back claws. At first, I didn’t realize the severity but as I sat on the sofa, Clover began to lick my hands so much so that I had to go and see why. I did not see the great amount of blood that was coming from my eye and how bad it was. She saw it and was trying to help. I looked at my eyelid and saw that it was badly cut from one side to the other. It was deep and it probably needed to be stitched but I was not ready to go anywhere. So, as I kept gently dabbing the blood from my eye, I noticed that it was clotting pretty quickly, and that was a great sign.

The next morning, I went to the eye doctor. Although I did not have an appointment she took me right away. She was quick to examine my eye, check for vision damage, and any other damage that could have occurred and offer solutions that would assist in the healing process without having to go anywhere else as long as I was careful and followed her directions. She was concerned since she said that it was a bad cut and was not healing as well or as quickly as she would like it to, and she wanted to see me again in two days. 

As an eye doctor, she is a very caring, compassionate, and personable doctor. She is a person that takes the time to be with her patients and gets to know them. She is a person that dedicates her life to helping people see more clearly so that they can have a better quality of life. She is more than a glimpse of God she is the abiding presence because in her vocation as a Physician of the Eye, she has committed her life to healing the diseases of the eyes.  I believe that they eyes are the lenses that God uses for us to possess those graces that will allow us see Him more clearly love Him more dearly and follow Him more nearly each day.  As a Physician, and I believe a woman of faith, she possesses the quality of compassion that enables her patients to trust her, follow her directions and know that the best result will occur. I know that I do and I know that I dodges a bullet. The eye has gone through the various shades of red, black and blue. It feels better, and my vision has not been affected. I am blessed.

There are times when our vison can be blurry and distorted or it can be crystal clear and we can see for miles, when we need help to see better and when we are at able to see 20.20, but in any case, we can close our eyes when we don’t want to see something, or we can open them widely so that we can take it all in. How do you choose to live life each day? As a participant or as a bystander?  

As we walk through this week, let us look at how we help others heal. Let us be humble before God and others and try our best to be a glimpse of God for them to see, a view of what we can be as we place our trust in Him and in those He places on our life on our journey of healing.

SUNDAY – “H” – HEALTHY

Most of us are either trying to stay healthy or get healthy. For many reasons we tend to lose sight of what it means to take care of our self and the one and only body that we will ever live in. We fall short by either not eating right, minimal physical exercise, too much work and not enough sleep, too much stress and not enough rest or quiet time.  In any case, our bodies, our minds, or spirits and our souls suffer. As we journey towards healing and wholeness we cannot walk our own journey, or the journey with another, without a healthier attitude or disposition. That doesn’t mean that we will or need to lose weight, that we have to stop working, or that we need to join the gym or enter the monastery. What it can mean is that we begin each day with a prayer of self-care and a desire to make the best decisions so that we can not only be our best self before God, but that we can help others become their best self before God as well.

For today, look at your healthy decisions and how they have a positive impact on your life and the life of those around you and then take a look at one unhealthy decision and the impact that it had. How did your body respond to your decisions? Can you recognize that you are cooperating with God on your journey of health, healing and wholeness through your decisions?

MONDAY – “E” – EMPATHY

Being willing to walk in another person’s shoes so that you can be present to them with understanding hope, compassion and love that invites them to believe that they can and will be healed and whole.  It is your gift of empathy that can make the difference and show them that where there is despair there can be hope, where there is isolation there can be inclusion and where there is sin and weakness there can be mercy and compassion.

For today, think of someone who may need empathy and how you may be God’s instrument of healing by your understanding, compassion and hope.

TUESDAY – “A” - ATTENTIVE

Being willing to listen to the needs and concerns of others without a personal agenda or selfish motive. By putting attentive into action through our listening, caring, compassion and mercy we help in the healing process of body, mind and spirit.

For today, look at how you pay attention to others. Are you present to them with your whole heart, body, mind and spirit or are you sitting before them with your mind on other things and your body language that speaks volumes of disinterest?  

WEDNESDAY – “L” – LEARNED

It doesn’t take an advanced degree to be a learned person in matters of the heart and spirit. It takes one who desires to be in the presence of God as their true self, and by being true to our self as God calls us and we are true to then that is what others will see in us and this can lead them to seek healing and or express gratitude.

For today, look at what you think being learned means in matters of the heart and spirit. Only with God’s Holy Spirit can we truly be learned when it comes to matters of the heart and spirit, so ask Him to show you how learned you have become because of His help.

THURSDAY – “I” – INSIGHTFUL

Seeing beyond appearances, excuses, masks, and guilt and recognizing the true presence and image of God in another especially one who is wounded and in need of hope, healing and wholeness.  We are all God’s beloved and it is our mission here on earth to let others know and believe that they are loved unconditionally by God and that they are His beloved child, His greatest creation. Being insightful means seeing through to the heart and not judging on the way, of showing understanding and not criticizing, of being ready to embrace and not run away from.

For today, look at how you have been insightful and how through your insight others have come to recognize how loved they are by God, how blessed and rich they are because they are His beloved child, and how there is nothing that they can do, no sin that they can commit, that will make Him love them less.

FRIDAY – “N” – NEWNESS

When we think of newness, we think of something being renewed. A newness of life and renewed passion for living. When it comes to healing, it can be through the sacraments of the Church that one feels renewed and given a newness of life. When it comes to relationships, a newness can come when one sees the other with a greater respect, dignity, and appreciation.  Being renewed in spirit is a gift that God offers to all of His children when our relationship with Him is strained. Being renewed in body is when we seek to be healed and believe that God will heal us in the way that He sees best. Being renewed in heart is when our heart is expanded so that we can love with a greater passion and zeal. All bring about newness.

For today, look at how your body, mind, heart and spirit have been renewed.  Can you recognize the difference? When it comes to healing, do you see where you have been healed and renewed and how that through your healing you can be the wounded healer for others?

SATURDAY – “G” – GRATEFUL

Being grateful, are you? Are you grateful to others for their presence, their attentiveness, their empathy, their understanding and compassion? Do you recognize how God has blessed you with the gift of His presence, His Holy Spirit, His peace? Are you grateful that you have been renewed and that you are on the journey of healing, hope and wholeness?

For today, express to God how grateful you are and if needed put it into action.

Glimpse of God for the week of May 6, 2018

My Glimpse of God for this week comes from Dr. Paul C, my surgeon at FCCC.  Dr. C. is not only my Glimpse of God for this week but has been a big glimpse since I first became his patient is 2014.

This week has had some painful physical challenges that not only have followed me most of this year but culminated to a point that I had to contact Dr. C. to help to resolve the problem.                     

Dr. C, when you first meet him, is a very unassuming, genuine and personable man.  When he first enters the room, he extends his hand out to shake yours and then begins with conversation. He always makes me feel comfortable and at ease, and as he begins the conversation, I know that is fully abreast of my situation and the issues at hand. He is prepared with his ideas and suggestions, and ready to listen to my responses as well as with any questions I may have. He comes across as a doctor who is ready to walk with me on this part of my journey to the best of his ability of what that walk can or will be like as he understands it. He understands my apprehension, frustration, and fear and is willing to go there with me, and I bet with all of his patients. He doesn’t run away from his patients as they express their frustrations and fears but chooses to respond to them as best he could; as a surgeon that can help relieve them by his healing vocation as a surgeon. Once the procedure is scheduled, I feel at peace because I know that not only is God present in and through the healing hands of Dr.C, but also because I believe that the compassion and care that Dr. C continues to extend to his patients is in response to God’s invitation to be more like Him in and through his ministry of healing.

Being a Glimpse of God is a gift, being the healing presence of God is a special gift and grace from God. I believe that Dr. C recognizes his giftedness by his humility, openness, care and compassion and how he shares that with his patients.  As I prepare for another challenging week, I know that I am in the best care and am blessed with Dr.C and all those at FCCC who work to make me and others experience healing and live with a better quality of life.

As we begin this week, let us think of what a surgeon does and how they remind us that when there is something that is endangering our body and causing us problems then it needs to be removed. Let us think of how we encounter those things, people or circumstances that endanger our spiritual life, our physical life or our emotional life and cause us not to be our best self and seek God’s grace to remove them or put them in their proper place.

SUNDAY – “S” -SURROUND

God surrounds us with His love. A surgeon looks at that which is unhealthy, and surrounding the healthy; be it tissue, organs or limbs, and seeks to remove it so that the healthy can thrive, we can be healed and move on with a better quality of life.

For today, look at who or what is keeping you from being healed and whole physically, emotionally or spiritually and ask God, the true healer, to surround you with trust, courage, strength and self-determination so that you will believe in yourself enough to face that which is holding you back from being healed and whole.

MONDAY – “U” – UNCOVERS

A surgeon uncovers that which is covered up or that we are unaware of so that we can see the whole picture and see how it affects our whole being and not just a part of it.  God uses surgeons to show His children what the body is fighting against with as much wisdom and knowledge that we can gain so that we can fight our best fight and not fight with our eyes closed.

For today, open your eyes and allow God to uncover your fears and speak to your heart His message of healing, trust and courage. Let Him show you how to uncover your fears and face them so that you can leave them in your past and live in the gift of the present, not looking back with regret but rather looking forward with peace.

TUESDAY – “R” – RENEWS

One surgery takes place, and healing begins, one can begin to feel renewed, rejuvenated and refreshed because something has been done to bring about wholeness and better health to the body. 

For today, look at how you have been renewed, healed, made whole and take a moment to thank God for this gift and those who have made it possible.

WEDNESDAY – “G” – GENTLE

My doctors and all those entrusted with my care have always had a gentle and caring approach with me. I know that not all patients can say that about their medical care, but at FCCC I can and I consider myself very blessed and them a big blessing. Being gentle as a doctor is not a sign of weakness but rather of strength, compassion, humility and true concern for their patients. Gentleness exudes a peace from within and one that is graciously shared.

Look at how you respond to your own needs and how gentle or rough you are. When you are weary and your body is aching, do you push ahead when perhaps God is asking you to steady and slow down? Do you ignore the signs that your body is speaking to you because you are afraid? What would you tell a loved one who was perhaps doing the same thing? Do you believe that you need to be rough because being gentle means being weak?

For today, try to see yourself as the God, who loves you unconditionally because you are His beloved child, sees you: a gentle, loving, caring person that He has called by name, and that you are His special gift to those He has placed in your life. Be gentle, God centered and see yourself as gift and God will do the rest.

THURSDAY – “E” – EMBRACE

God’s embrace is greater than any other. He embraces us each day as He calls us to life and invites us to walk with Him each day.  Sometimes we don’t recognize that embrace because of what we are experiencing in life:  ill health, financial stress, family obligations, estrangement in the family, our own weaknesses yet in all of these God is right there with His arms around us to surround us and show us that we are never far from His embrace or His love.

For today, if you know and experience that loving embrace of God, thank Him. If you know someone who is not able or willing to allow themselves to feel the loving embrace of God, or the warmth of His love and the peace of His healing and forgiveness, pray for them. Is it a spouse who feels overworked, or a child who feels burdened or a neighbor who is unemployed or a friend feels alone and unloved? How can a gentle hand shake, hug, expressed words of concern help them or make them feel the love and presence of God?  It is through your actions that they can begin to see how they are loved and not alone and that they will not be defeated but will defeat that which is trying to bring them down.

FRIDAY – “O” – OPENS UP

A surgeon opens up, looks in and removes that which is problematic to and within our bodies.  God opens up our hearts, expands them and fills them with the graces we need: the graces of healing, peace, joy, mercy, reconciliation, compassion, humility, and thanksgiving.  God is always ready to fill us with what we ask for and for what He knows we need, when we are ready.

For today, look at how you may be closing your mind and heart to the many gifts that God has for you and His presence and how He is trying to reveal it to you. What are you still afraid of, covering up or running away from that keep you from believing in God’s great love for you and how He is revealing that love to you. Ask for the grace to open yourself to His healing, strength, and courage so that you can be more open to receive them and be the wounded healer with others who are also struggling.  When your hands are open you can receive the gifts easier than when your hands are clasped because then they just fall out. The same with our prayer. When our minds and hearts are open, our prayer stems from love and is more humble and honest, when our minds and hearts are closed, our prayer stems from self-righteousness and strays from reconciliation, peace and joy. Are your mind and heart open and ready to be filled or closed and waiting to be empty?

SATURDAY – “N” – NURTURES

God nurtures us and is our strength. Our body gets our spiritual nurturing from God. It is through our faith, family, friends, surgeons, colleagues, or specific life experiences that also have the ability to nurture our spiritual life, so that our physical life is also strengthened and sustained. All of these have the ability to nurture us so that we can be the best person that God has created us to be and knows that we can become.

For today, look at the things that nurture you, that give you strength, that sustain you, that keep you going, that raise you up and lift your spirits. If you are experiencing ill health, take a moment to see how your doctors are a nurturing source, if you are experiencing family struggles, look at how the love that binds you as family has been a source of strength in the past and seek to find it again, if you are unemployed and struggling to believe in your own self-worth, remember that your worth does not come from what you do, but rather who you are, and that is God’s beloved child, whose worth is never  measured with a ruler, only shown with by the cross.

You have been nurtured in many ways, look at how nurturing you are to others. Take the time to recognize that gift within yourself and how others have grown and become their best self because of you. You are nurturing, selfless and caring and that is because God has created you that way. Don’t let anything come in between who you are and the person God wants you to become

 

 

Glimpse of God for the week of April 29, 2018

 

As I reflect on our week here in Lancaster, I can’t help but see how God is revealing Himself. There have been many glimpses of His love, light and presence in and through the home that we are staying in, seeing “JESUS” at the “Sight and Sound Theatres, seeing the movie, “Paul”, the ability to go to daily Mass, the two dogs that are our neighbors and how I was just able to sit on the ground and have them approach me, the peace and beauty that surrounds us in the landscaping of Lancaster, and the people that are so God centered, friendly and peace filled.

As we approached the house that we are staying in, the first thing that we noticed is the style of the home, it is in the shape of an “A”. It is very different from the homes that surround it. As you walk in you might have a problem if you are tall in stature because the walls do form an “A”, and this requires that one walk in the center of the room if one does not want to walk into the walls and hit one’s shoulders, toes or head.

SO…. where or how is God revealing Himself? What is my glimpse for this week? It came to me as I entered into the home and realized that I needed to walk in the center of the room if I did not want to walk into the wall, stub my toes, rub my shoulders or hit my head. As one walks into the room looks ahead, one can see the beauty of the outside through the windows. God’s creation awaits anyone who is willing to appreciate it.

Our faith requires that we walk straight and keep our eyes fixed on Jesus. As one stays in this home, one constantly is reminded that they need to stay focused and walk in the center of the room. Christ is our center and if we are to walk with Him, we need to keep our focus on Him. When we stray, we hit the walls hit our heads and feel the bumps that come. As we walk with Christ, He does not lead us to darkness, but He leads us through the darkness. This home is a reminder of the great love that He has for us and how in some extraordinary and rare way, He reminds us of how we are walking with Him, how we are keeping our focus on Him, and how He blesses us on our journey with the His sacraments.

As one stays here, one might say that there is a lot of wasted space, but yet it is in the empty space that one is called to walk straight and keep their focused. Is there a lot of empty space in your life? Is it too much work and not enough prayer time, is it consumerism? Social status? What is holding you back from keeping your focus on Christ? How are you bumping your head, rubbing your shoulders, and stubbing your toes as you try to keep focus and can you get back on track?

As we approach this week and the beauty of the month of May, let us try to look at those things that are making us bump our heads, toes and shoulders and see what we need to do to get back on center. Let us REFOCUS on Christ.

SUNDAY – “R” – Refocus. Can you see where you need to refocus and how Christ may be calling you in a different direction? How difficult is it to admit that you need to change the direction that you are walking in or want walk in? Are you bumping your head, stubbing your toes or rubbing your shoulders on the walls as you try to avoid listening and seeing the direction that Christ is pointing you in?

For today, try to look straight ahead and put one foot in the front of the other so that if there is one choice that you want to make that will stub your toe or make you hit your head, ask for the grace to change your mind.

MONDAY – “E” – Embrace. Take the gift of God’s direction and embrace it. Make it yours, choose it and as difficult as it may seem to be, once you choose to walk in His light, the path will be clearer and there will be less opportunities to walk into the walls that surround you. Walking into walls, as painful as that is, is also an opportunity to look at the wall and examine and evaluate your direction and the choices that you are making and make better choices, ones that don’t hurt as much, give you a sense of fulfillment and allow you to go forward.

For today, pray for the grace to know God’s will, direction and desire for you. Seek to live up to your potential and ask that God help you to embrace it and achieve it. God does not want us walking into walls when He has our path ready for us. When we fail to live up to our potential, we are failing to listen to the Spirit of God and how the Holy Spirit is calling us to go forward, in the light of God’s love, in the direction that He is pointing out to us. Sometimes, that comes in the form of an” A” house, the house with a foundation that immediately leads us to the center of our life, the person of Jesus Christ.

TUESDAY – “F” – Follow. Follow your heart. Allow the love of God that dwells within you be your guide especially when you are facing decisions, either difficult daily ones or life changing one’s. In either case, that God knows your heart and wants only the best for you. Follow the path, walk in His way, trust in the journey, and you will find peace.

For today, try to make a difficult decision, one that you have been putting off. Look at your choices and ask for the grace and the wisdom of the Holy Spirit to follow your heart, listen to the truth that is spoken in the depths of your heart, and make the best one. As you go forward and try to avoid bumping your head, stubbing your toes or rubbing your shoulder, remember that it is only when we truly desire to see God in all things, that our hearts are open and the presence of God is revealed.

WEDNESDAY – “O’ -  Outlook. What is your outlook or attitude towards life? Are you a positive person, one that tries to see the good in most circumstances, situations and people? Or do you look for the negative and seek to bring others down instead of raising them up? What is your outlook when it comes to your faith? How do you see God in your life? Are you in a relationship with Him, one that is nurtured through your prayer and the sacraments of the church, or is He the God that you call on only when you need Him and expect Him to clean up the mess and fix things?

For today, listen and choose to believe that God’s outlook for you is much brighter, healthier, wholesome than you can ever imagine or hope for. He knows your heart, your potential, your desires and yes even your weaknesses and sins. BUT the good news is that His love is still greater than anything that you could do, no matter how many walls that you walk into or hit your head, no matter how many times you lose your focus, or even choose to stay stuck with decisions that you need to make. His outlook is one of healing, wholeness and peace for you and He wants you to believe that and live accordingly.

THURSDAY - “C” – Change. Change can be difficult for some and yet for others, is viewed as an invitation to do, see or respond to something differently. In any case it is not always easy. Personal or spiritual change is an invitation by God to personal and spiritual transformation.

Change can be deeply painful but yet eternally rewarding. God sees those things that we do that cause us to move away from Him and the good that HE wants and has in store for us. God doesn’t force us to make decisions or changes but invites us to see how the decisions that we are making are causing us to stray and be confused, not at peace with our self and never really happy within. Change can alleviate the darkness that we feel we are walking in and bring about light and understanding and peace.

For today, invite the changes that you know that you need to make and seek to take one step at a time to make them. I remind you of the serenity prayer, one that brings serenity and peace: “God grant me the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference”

FRIDAY -” U” – Unobstructed view. What is obstructing your view to God, the cross, healing, wholeness or peace? What in your life is keeping you from seeing the truth and the direction that God is trying to point out to you? Whatever is obstructing your view can be removed, ask for the grace to move it and God will give you a clearer view, one that had no obstacles, but rather opportunities to see Him more clearly.

For today, recall the times in your life when you were able to recognize the presence and view of God clearly. What were the choices that you made that helped you see God clearly and with an unobstructed view or obstacles in the way? Seek to discern His will again as you make a decision, but take one decision at a time, and seek to take one step at a time and that way you won’t be walking into the wall, but rather recognizing the wall and stopping short of it.

SATURDAY – “S” - straight ahead. This has been a challenging week one where you have to examine and evaluate your choices and the direction that you are taking and where that direction may be different than the one that God has in store for you. Take a look at where you have gone straight ahead towards God and thank Him for the Holy Spirit’s guidance.  We know that it can be difficult going straight ahead when we want to take our short cuts, go the back roads or just pull over, but yet when we believe that the God who created us knows the best and wants the best, then we need to go straight ahead.

For today, go straight ahead and take a moment to thank God for the shot cuts, the back roads and the rest stops, because it is through all of those, that you came to realize the truth and the direction that is of God. Also, think of how you have been chosen to build God’s Kingdom here on earth and go build it one act of kindness at a time.

Glimpse of God for the week of April 22, 2018

My Glimpse of God for this week comes as I reflect on Good Shepherd Sunday and thank God for the pastor and staff of Saint Pius X, where Father John resides. Father Kaufman, the pastor and Cyndee, the secretary of Saint Pius X, are two people, along with the other staff members, who truly exude, witness to and live out the presence and love of Christ in their life. I believe that I, along with many others, have been and will continue to be recipients of their love for God and the joy that comes from that love every time we enter the doors of the rectory.  The words that come to mind as I reflect on their true sense and spirit of hospitality are warmth and welcome. 

As often as I go there, I am always greeted with a true spirit of warmth, I am always made to feel welcome and I feel as though I belong there even though I am not a parishioner.  As I reflect on what it means to be Church, what it means to be a member of a parish, and what it feels like to belong, I can say that Saint Pius X embodies and embraces these ideals, fulfills the mission of the Church on the parish level, and responds to Christ’s call to welcome all.

As a pastor although I do not know Father Kaufman well, every time he sees me at the rectory, he greets me and I feel welcomed.  As a pastor, he is called to welcome with the hospitality of Christ and help those who he encounters to feel that welcome as if it were Christ Himself at the door. As a pastor in the Catholic Church today, he has, as do all pastors, the role and responsibility of pastoring the flock of believers to come to know their true shepherd, Jesus Christ better, so that they may want to love Him more dearly, serve Him more faithfully and follow Him more nearly day by day. As an observer, I can see that he embraces his priesthood, as do the other priests, and often goes beyond to help others to see Christ in their specific experience or circumstances. 

People today are looking to belong when they feel outcasts, to feel welcomed when they feel like the stranger, to feel loved when they feel unloved.  As a church and the Body of Christ, we have the responsibility to be Christ and to welcome, forgive, embrace all those we encounter as if we are encountering Christ, and we might just be. Saint Pius does that and does it very well. Through Cyndee and her smile, her ease of conversation, and her ability to relate to people is a great gift and of Christ’s presence.  We often chat and recently as I shared a medical dilemma that I was having, she was very warm, helpful and quick to make me feel less embarrassed and self-conscious.  

Hospitality is God’s invitation for us to be our best self and greet all those we encounter as if we were greeting Christ himself.  This gift is a call of faith for us to see beyond what appears, and to look at the heart of others with compassion and not judge, but to embrace and not to turn away from. We are all called to be extend the warmth of Christ’s hospitality. How we choose to do that is as special as God’s call to each of us.

So…. as we begin a new week, let us look at how we are called to extend Christ’s hospitality and seek to be His warmth and WELCOME to all those we encounter.

SUNDAY – “W” – warmth

In a world where people can be cold and uncaring, how are we called to bring the genuine warmth and tenderness of God ‘s love to others?  When we are stressed and feel overwhelmed, it can be easy to be cold and uncaring, judgmental and harsh, but yet as followers of Christ, that response does not work and it goes against what we stand for and who we stand with. Christ’s warmth melted the hearts of the most sinful and ashamed and He welcomed and embraced all, even those disliked and judged by others.

Being warm can melt the coldness of our hearts, our harsh judgments, our deep-rooted anger, our past hurts and can ignite the passion of our mercy, our compassion, our peace and bring about healing.

For today, think about how it feels when you are warm and caring. Take a moment to pray for those who either choose not to be, cannot be, do not know how to be, and those in our society who are the recipients of our cold and uncaring responses. Ask God to melt the coldness of their hearts and fill them with the warmth of His love, mercy, compassion and healing.

MONDAY – “E” – embrace

How do we embrace others? What does a hug or embrace mean? Do we embrace others or do we turn away? When we are embraced, how do we respond and how does that embrace make us feel afterwards? Do you believe that Christ embraces you in and through the Sacraments especially Eucharist and Reconciliation, in and through each other, and just by the virtue of your baptism?

For today, as you strive to be God’s instrument of warmth and welcome, spiritually embrace someone who is far from embracing; an estranged family member, an outcast of society, someone who has caused you harm, someone who is alone and has no one. Ask Jesus to help you embrace them with His compassion, mercy, forgiveness, healing, and love and try to see yourself embracing them as Christ embraces you. Do not limit your embrace but ask Jesus to completely embrace them so that they may know that He loves them and is always with them even when you are unable to be.

TUESDAY – “L” – laughter

Do you laugh enough or do you take life so seriously that you can’t find it within yourself to laugh? Laughter is good medicine, iit lets go of stress and lowers one’s blood pressure. If we can laugh at our self, then we are able to see that in the midst of our goodness, we can find humor in something that we say or do even though it may have been embarrassing. Laughing is good. I believe that Jesus laughed, after all look at the crew He chose, the many times they missed His point and the many more times that they put their foot in their mouths. Jesus wouldn’t have laughed at them to make them feel bad or embarrass them, but rather to show them that although He knew their hearts and loved them, they provided a moment or a source of humor and He wanted to celebrate it, not ignore it.

For today, take a moment to laugh and see how your body responds to laughter. Think of a good joke, a funny story, your own personal embarrassing moment that you can look back on, and yes laugh at, a funny show, your favorite comedian….You can think of something that makes you laugh, so find it, laugh at it and then thank God for the gift of  laughter. It is truly a gift and if one tries to live without it, life just becomes too serious and less joy filled.

WEDNESDAY – “C” - compassion

How compassionate do you think you are? What does compassion mean to you? Do you feel that you extend compassion or hold on to it? Have you experienced compassion being shown to you and if so, how did you feel? Do you feel that extending compassion is a sign of weakness or a sign of humility and selflessness? Compassion is a gift of love. It is a gift that shows how your heart has been expanded and filled with love over hatred, acceptance over judgment and peace over bitterness. Jesus had compassion on those who were rejected and scorned by others.  He reached out and lifted up those who felt that they were far from His embrace, compassion and love. You are within His grasp and embrace. He has touched you with His compassion, not to be done in vain, but so that you can extend it to another.

For today, seek to be more compassionate towards someone that you will find it difficult to love. Being kind, caring and selfless towards someone that causes you stress, makes you feel less than the person that God has created you to be, or makes you think badly about yourself is difficult, painful and not immediately rewarding, but it is required if we are serious about our decision to be like Christ. When you perform a random act of kindness, please look to the cross to see that your return was an everlasting act of redemption.    

THURSDAY – “O” – oversight

How do you respond when there is an oversight with something or when you miss something that you thought was important? Do you get angry and take it out on someone, do you blame others, or do you just take it in stride and go forward? Oversights or misunderstandings can make or break relationships, cause life to be miserable, and make us feel like failures, yet they happen and will happen again. God doesn’t want us to beat ourselves up when we make a mistake, but rather learn from it and try not to repeat it. Done deal!.

I think that the biggest oversight that we should be grateful for is the one God has for our sins and shortcomings. God does not beat us up when we sin, but He gently invites us AND waits for us to come back to Him.

He waits for us and He embraces us. He doesn’t make us feel like the worst people because He can’t. We are His greatest creation, loved unconditionally and there is no sin that is greater than His love for us.

For today, as you think of an oversight that happened, a mistake that you made or something that did not go the way that you expected it to, think of the many other times when you got it right, hit the mark and were pleased with your efforts, and be grateful. God loves a grateful heart.

FRIDAY – “M” – mission

Our mission as disciples of Christ and witnesses to His presence in our life, is to build the Kingdom of God here on earth and to be His instruments of peace, healing, mercy, compassion, truth, hope, joy and healing to all those He places in our life. But there are times when we do not feel as though we are fulfilling the mission due to low self-esteem, our own sinfulness, or the belief that God has chosen us to be His missionaries, yet we were and continue to be. We don’t need to go to school or be the best or brightest, all God requires of us is an open heart, one that desires to love Him and serve Him.

For today, think of how you have been chosen to build God’s Kingdom here on earth. Think of how you have been working at it: either one brick at a time, one prayer at a time, one embrace at a time or one moment of silence at a time. Try to see how your action has been a glimpse of God’s presence and how that glimpse brought light and peace to His kingdom where there was the darkness of doubt, discouragement or despair.

 SATURDAY – “E” – empathy

In a world where understanding of individuals, ideals, choices, and change is minimal and judgment, condemnation and hatred are chosen first, we need to reevaluate our decision-making process and the foundation from which we make those decisions. If we claim to be followers of Christ, but we choose to pass judgment on another, then we need to ask our self who is guiltier, them or us? When we choose to turn away from the wounded, the outcast, the afflicted and yet claim to be people of compassion, we need to ask our self what does compassion mean? When we choose to close the doors of our heart to mercy, peace, and love, we need to ask our self how we will live if the doors to Christ remain closed?

For today, ask yourself where is Christ in your decision-making process and does He need to change places? Is He on the front line and the foundation of your decision-making process, or do you place Him in the back, and blame Him when your choices don't go the way that you wanted or expected them to go? He is big enough to take the blame for your decisions, but you need to be big enough to accept the responsibility for them

re on earth. Think of how you have been working at it: either one brick at a time, one prayer at a time, one embrace at a time or one moment of silence at a time. Try to see how your action has been a glimpse of God’s presence and how that glimpse brought light and peace to His kingdom where there was the darkness of doubt, discouragement or despair.

 

Glimpse of God for the week of April 8, 2018 

What did Mary Magdalene, The Apostles, Thomas, and The Disciples on the road to Emmaus, have in common after Jesus rose from the dead?  What they had in common was that they were prevented from recognizing Jesus after He rose from the dead. They thought that He was the gardener, a stranger in town, or just another man. What was preventing them? What did Jesus know about each of their hearts that needed to be healed by His presence after He died on the cross and they felt abandoned, left alone to figure out things, led to a darkness that they never felt or expected?

All were prevented, unable to see or recognize the risen Christ. The very Jesus that they broke bread with, ministered together with, experienced His miracles, and probably shared their stories about their brokenness, their joys, their hopes, their sorrows, and their hopes about the Messiah and how He would change things for the better. Christ raised people from the dead, healed the blind, the deaf, the crippled, he ate with sinners and ministered to the outcasts, and these very apostles, disciples, and women followers were with Him to see it first hand. They had come to know Jesus and the kind of person He was. They learned of the kind of person that they would need to become if they were going to be His followers and follow His example from His life to and through His death and to His resurrection.

Yet they were unable to recognize Him after He rose from the dead, Why? Seeing Him after He rose from the dead, frightened them instead of being jubilant and happy to see Him, they were unable to recognize Him for who He was and they stood in disbelief. What was preventing them from seeing Him as Jesus and not the gardener or a stranger? Was it their grief at His horrible death, was it their anger at how they followed and believed in Him, and now they had no one to follow and they felt abandoned and left on their own? Was it fear? Was it overwhelming disbelief at all that happened and they still couldn't make any sense of it all?

What causes us to not see the resurrected Jesus in our life and in the face and life of others? Is it the pain or separation that comes from the physical death of a loved one? is it our woundedness where we need to healed and made whole? is it the death of a relationship through separation, divorce, disagreement? is it the death of an ideal? of a dream?  is it anger, loneliness, or fear? We are prevented from seeing the risen Jesus in the faces and lives of others when we can't see past the pain of our cross, our own personal suffering; whether it is spiritual, emotional or physical.

I believe that our anger, our sorrow, our weariness at what we are coping with can prevent us from seeing the Risen Christ and  experiencing the resurrections in our life that Jesus has in store. You can't have a Good Friday without a Resurrection Sunday. They go together. Jesus' first words to His followers who stood in disbelief were "Peace be with you!" He didn't reprimand them for not recognizing Him because he knew their hearts and how much they loved Him, but yet how they were filled with so many other emotions. The resurrections in our life comes in the forms of peace, joy, happiness, reconciliation, healing, compassion, mercy, understanding and a renewed desire to be the best person that God created us to be despite our crosses and the challenges that they bring. It is difficult to experience resurrection if we cannot let go and let God bring us these gifts because of our disbelief that He wants to give them to us and our fears that we will be called to change and be transformed forever.

When Jesus saw Mary Magdelene, she at first was unable to recognize Him as Her Lord and Teacher. He saw through her fear and instead of causing more pain for her, He touched her heart because He knew the depth of her love for Him. He brought that forward, past her fear, her pain, her deep sense of loss and much confusion, and it was then that she recognized Him.  He offered her Peace. That is what He offers all of His children. He knows that depth of our love for Him even in the midst and the weight of our crosses. When we say Yes to His will, and desire to do and be the very best we can and surrender our will to Him each day, then we are experiencing a resurrection.

So this week, let us take time to see the resurrected Jesus in our lives and in the faces and lives of others.

            "Rabboni" which means teacher. Your prayer for the week can be: Teach me your ways O Lord and make known to me the path that I must travel to walk closer to you.

SUNDAY - "T" - Thanksgiving

Are you thankful for the gift of Jesus' passion, death and resurrection that gives you your personal resurrections? Through Jesus' passion, death and resurrection you have someone that knows your pain, your suffering and your confusion and can help you as you carry your cross. He blesses you with His peace, joy, and happiness here on earth, so that you can move forward and recognize your resurrections and rejoice in them.

MONDAY - "E" - Empathy

Are you empathetic, understanding, compassionate towards others who fail to recognize the risen Jesus in their life because of the weight of their crosses and the pain that they are feeling? or do you put them down, judge them, lose patience with them, see yourself as better than them? Empathy requires an open heart, one that is in relationship with God and wants to share His good news of mercy, healing, peace, love with others, and how they are His beloved children, loved unconditionally, and His greatest creation. You can't be empathetic if you want to hold others back and think yourself as better than them. Recognizing the risen Christ and the resurrections in your life means that you have the heart of Christ and the desire to expand it so that Jesus can fill it with His presence in the way that He chooses to reveal it.

TUESDAY - "A" - Amazement

Are you, can you allow our self to be amazed? Can you see, do you see the many signs of resurrection in your life?  Do you recognize your resurrections, the place where you experience the Risen Christ in your life? Do you see them in and through the healing that has taken place through reconciliations? Can you recognize the Risen Christ, your resurrections in your joys, your family, your spouse, your children, your neighbors, your church, and your place of employment? All of these can provide signs of resurrection and the peace that Jesus wants for you. Can you see them? Ask for the ability to recognize the Risen Jesus as you encounter others, see circumstances differently, recognize that personal grudges as an unnecessary weight that is holding you back from peace and seek the grace to let go.

WEDNESDAY - "C" - Charity

Are you charitable in your words, deeds, actions and attitudes? Do you offer peace, reconciliation, mercy, compassion and forgiveness to others, especially those who have caused you pain and have made your cross heavy? Jesus offered peace to His disciples even after they denied Him, abandoned Him and hid in fear. He forgave them because He knew their hearts. He knows your heart and how it wants to be the best in love. He offers you His mercy and peace so that you can be more charitable. He does not want you to hold onto grudges because it is then that you miss out on the possibility of reconciliation, renewal and reconnection.  

THURSDAY - "H" - Honor

Do you honor yourself, others and God by how you treat yourself, others and  in your relationship with God? Can you honor others, who are also God's beloved children, who have offended you in some way ? Do you recognize that God honors you? Or are you your greatest offender? Do you want to ask God for His grace and love to penetrate your brokenness so that you can recognize not only how He honors you, but loves you beyond any sin or weakness that you have committed? God's love is greater than any sin that you committed and He wants that to be your resurrection. He wants you to embrace your new life with the Risen Christ. 

FRIDAY - "E" - Embrace

Do you go towards Jesus as He holds out His arms to embrace you or do you run from His embrace? What brings you towards Christ so that you can be embraced by Him? Is it your desire to say thank you and talk to Him about what you are experiencing in your life? Is it because you want to be healed and you realize that only he can heal your woundedness in whatever form it is taking? You can't fix what is broken or shattered, only Jesus can. You can become the wounded healer though and that is a great gift, a big resurrection, the recognition of the risen Christ in your life.

 SATURDAY - "R" - Revelation

What or how has God revealed Himself to you this week that has made you respond with joy and happiness, that brought you a deep sense of peace and gratitude, thanksgiving and serenity? Was it a reconciliation of a relationship? forgivenss of self for something that you have held on to but now are able to let go of and forgive yourself for? Was it a blessing that you have been praying for and have received and found it to be better than you could have imagined?  What resurrections have you experienced this week? Do you see the Risen Christ because of your resurrections, more readily in those around you? How has He revealed Himself to you? How have you revealed Him to others this week? How do you want to reveal Him to others?

limpse of God for the week of April 1, 2018

Happy Easter !!!!!!

My Glimpse of God for this week comes from a variety of sources. As I think of a Glimpse of God, I think of those places, people, events and situations that I have encountered or experienced this past week that led me to recognize Him more clearly. It is those glimpses that I share with you as I hope that they too will help you appreciate and recognize Him more clearly as well.

Today, for this week, I am seeing His Glimpse not from what has occurred, but rather what is yet to occur, what He has in store for me. This is not about looking past the present and wanting to jump into the future, but rather, appreciating the present and seeking to grow in a greater appreciation of the present by what lies ahead.

As I reflect on the upcoming days, I realize that I have been entrusted with the cares and concerns of many and it is through their trust in me that I have come to a greater trust in God and His will for us. I pray for my nephew and godson who both are having major surgery this week, I trust in God and that He will guide the surgeons as they seek to bring healing and a better quality of life to both men.  I am lifting up in prayer several friends who have lost siblings suddenly and without much warning. I have been asked to pray for those whose jobs are affecting their physical health and how they need to trust in God as they prepare to make some difficult decisions. I am praying in gratitude for the successful surgery outcomes that have come to be for several friends and acquaintances. The gift of prayer is a great gift, it is the gift that unites our hearts to the heart of God, it is the gift that we all possess, one that is an act of selflessness and humility and not selfishness or self-centeredness. It is the hidden glimpse of God, the glimpse that expands our hearts to know, love and serve Him without reservation, and with a greater determination.

As I celebrate the joy of Christ’s resurrection and the Easter season, I celebrate how I have been called from the tombs of my life so that I can see the Son rise and experience reconciliation, peace and freedom as only He can offer it to me. As I reflect on the great love that Christ has for me and how HE selflessly gave of His life so that I may live forever with Him when my earthly journey is over, I am stilled in peace, renewed in love, filled with awe and silenced in humility.

So as we prepare to be renewed and refreshed this coming week, take this week to look for the ways that God wants to renew and refresh you and use this week to appreciate in a deeper way where you are coming from and what direction He wants you to go.

 

SUNDAY – Rejoice - This is the day that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad. Are you able to rejoice and celebrate the love that God has for you, and the love that you have for God? He has created you, He loves you, you are His beloved and He with His angels is rejoicing over you. Do you believe this? For today, celebrate and rejoice in His love and share that love with those you encounter. Rejoicing is another source of renewal. As you rejoice, allow yourself to feel the joy that comes from the depth and recesses of your being, and smile.

 

MONDAY - Remember – As you begin a new work week, try to not dwell on the stresses of the past week, but remember them, surrender them and leave them behind. This week, allow yourself to remember the promise that for those who seek, they shall find, for those who knock the door will be opened and for those who ask it will be given. What is it that you truly seek from God? What do you want God to do for you? What are you looking for that you want God to provide? What doors are closed that need to be opened, and what doors are still ajar that need to be closed? In the process of remembering, strive to focus on the positive and seek the grace to let go of the negative.

 

TUESDAY - Renewal – For today, just take and pray for one aspect of your life that you would like to be renewed. Is it your faith; would you like to deepen your prayer life and grow in a deeper relationship with God? Is it family; do you feel that as a family you are not able spend quality time together because everyone is always on the go? Has the busy ness of life taken away your time together?

Is it relationships; do you feel that you are taken for granted or that you take another for granted? Are there people that you would like to appreciate more or that you would like to be more appreciated by?

In these areas, are you in a “rut” where you find yourself and others doing the same thing and there is no quality time being spent or nurtured? Are you seeking to be renewed or are you happy with the way things are? Ask God to renew those areas, those relationships that He knows are not the best that they can be.

 

WEDNESDAY – Restoration  - What in your life do you feel needs to be restored? Ask God to restore those things, those areas, those relationships, that once restored will bring you to a greater recognition and appreciation of His presence, His grace, His healing, in the restoration. God brings back, or returns something, someone, to you, when He feels and believes that you are ready to receive it. As you seek restoration, seek wisdom so that you will see with clarity the change and the newness that you are being blessed with.

 

THURSDAY – Relaxation – take time to relax and use your senses to bring your body, mind and spirit to a deeper awareness of God’s gift of serenity, peace and calm. Use your eyes to see God resting on the 7th day, after the creation of man, His greatest creation. Use your ears to hear Him say IT IS GOOD, after He was finished with the creation of Man. Listen to Him tell you that you are Good and that He is happy with you and loves you very much. Use your nose to smell the aromas that surround you, those of the spring flowers, coffee brewing, meals cooking, fresh cut grass. Appreciate the ability to smell and breathe in the story behind the aroma. Use your hands to reach out and feel the presence of God in and through everything that He has created. When you reach out and touch someone or something, you are touching a part of creation given to you to cultivate, appreciate, reverence and tend to. As you touch someone who is grieving, rejoicing, carrying a heavy cross, you are reaching out in the name of Jesus and offering His love, compassion and mercy to them.

 

FRIDAY – Resist – For today try to resist the temptation to talk about another, hold a grudge, remain angry, carry a hurt another day, but instead, seek to forgive and be forgiven. God’s grace is there to grasp as you strive to be His witness in the world. The devil tempts us with those things that we like and are drawn towards. If we like being angry, holding a grudge and talking about others, then we will not be able to resist the temptation to continue, but if we recognize that these are not healthy spiritual practices, then God will give us the grace to say no, and seek ways to build up others and His kingdom here on earth.

 

SATURDAY – Reconcile – Is there anyone that you would like to be reconciled to? Are you estranged from God, from others? Are you punishing yourself for a choice or choices that you  made and feel that you can’t be forgiven? The grace of reconciliation is always there. As you seek to be reconciled, know that you will be called to forgive, seek forgiveness from another, and experience the joy that comes from the healing. Sometimes we hold on to things because we are afraid to experience true happiness; God’s happiness for us. God wants us to experience His happiness for us, not the world’s idea of happiness. As you seek to live as God’s beloved, allow yourself to be loved. You are loveable and loved. God rejoices when we are reconciled to Him and each other

 

 

Remember: Your breath is your life, use it wisely. Your heart is big, fill it wisely. Your mind is open, expand it wisely. Your God is present, reverence Him wisely. You are God's temple, honor yourself wisely.

 

 

GLIMPSE OF GOD FOR THE WEEK OF MARCH 25, 2018

Glimpse Of God for Holy Week,

 

As we enter into Holy Week, my Glimpse of God is not in a single experience that I had this past week or in any special situation that I found myself in, but rather in the anticipation of this Holy Week and what it means to me.

As a source of personal reflection and to discern my motivations, I often ask myself; What is Holy Week and what is it all about to me? Is it about the long passion gospel narratives that I hear on Palm Sunday and Good Friday, or the passing out of palm, or the unusual crowds, or the different liturgy times on Thursday and Friday, or the misunderstanding that people have about lent and the triduum, or the barrenness of the sanctuary and the empty tabernacle on Good Friday, or even the long Easter vigil and how people either avoid it or are attracted to it?

I don’t believe that it is these elements that make the week “holy”; they make it different, but not holy. These elements are necessary to celebrate and remember the specific events of Jesus, but it is not the outward celebration of the events that make them “holy”. I think that it is the spirit in which they are celebrated, and the inner disposition of those who participate in the celebrations, both the celebrants and the congregation, that make them “holy”. “Holy” means sacred, and blessed, as well as consecrated and hallowed.  Liturgy is sacred. We are blessed. The celebration of the Mass is the most sacred and holiest events that we are privileged to attend. It is through the Mass that we encounter Christ in Sacred Scripture and in the reception of the Eucharist.

We were blessed at our baptism as we were immersed in the waters of Jesus’ passion, death and resurrection. All that being said, if our hearts are not present to the reality of the liturgy, then we are going through the motions. We miss the true meaning, the “holy”, of the holy week services.

Jesus often criticized the religious leaders for “looking” holy, by saying all the right things but they were not doing the right things. Jesus said that the people could listen to what the religious leaders said because they knew the law, but do not follow their example, for their heart was far from God. I don’t think that Jesus would want us to celebrate His entrance into Jerusalem on Palm Sunday, or the Last Supper on Holy Thursday, or His passion and death on Good Friday out of obligation or guilt but rather out of love, desire and gratitude.

Out of Love for Jesus in that He endured His passion and death for you and me in complete selflessness, unconditional love, mercy and sacrifice. If we are truly in love with Him and desire to draw nearer to Him and live out our baptismal call to enter more deeply into His passion, death and resurrection, then we would want to attend the special liturgies. It is in and through them that we encounter the suffering Jesus, the Jesus that although did not and could not sin, endured the death of a hardened criminal out of pure love. We want our hearts to be more like His because His heart is the perfect heart and we want to strive to love as He loved and be more perfect in our love. He said Yes to His Father and gave of Himself completely so that we may live in eternity with Him, what love, what gift.

He would want us to celebrate with a spirit of gratitude in that we have been redeemed and forgiven and that we are grateful for such a wonderful life changing, life long gift. He would want our hearts to be united with His in His passion, death and resurrection so that we can truly appreciate and be thankful for the gift of His love and life in ours. We can choose to enter into the liturgies as just a body in the pew but I think that it would be better if we entered into them with a heart ready to be loved and embraced and a mind open to being truly present at the special events of Jesus’ life.

So as you enter into Holy Week, my idea is to just take each day and reflect by using your senses as you draw nearer to and enter into the Holy Triduum.

 

SUNDAY – PALM SUNDAY – As a bystander at the entrance of Jesus into Jerusalem on a donkey,

Are you one that is throwing palm or your personal cloak on the ground to make a path for Jesus? (touch)

As you listen to the crowd, are you also shouting Hosanna to Jesus as He passes by you? (hearing)

Are you so far back in line that you can’t see Him and you are experiencing so much frustration that you are ready to leave for you home miles away? (sight)

When you hear that Jesus is entering on a donkey, the worse smelling animal, do you just turn away and go home, missing the greater purpose for which He is there? (smell)

When you hear that Jesus is coming and you want to be there because you witnessed His miracles and wanted to see Him again, can you taste the excitement in the air? (taste)

 

MONDAY OF HOLY WEEK  - Using your sense of mystery, can you recall Jesus entrance into Jerusalem yesterday, and look ahead to Holy Thursday and Good Friday and see such a stark change, and ask yourself where would I have been in these events? Would I have changed from glorifying Jesus to condemning Him? Every time we sin, we are not choosing Jesus, so are we denying Jesus as did Peter and are we choosing Barabbas, as did the crowd?

 

TUESDAY OF HOLY WEEK – Using your sense of Wonder, Jesus washed the feet of His disciples and calls us to do the same. Jesus washed the feet to show us that we must serve the needs of others. How difficult that is for us, yet as followers of Jesus we must. Do you wonder when you are going to be called to do such a thing?  To wash someone’s feet? It may not be someone’s feet that you are called to wash, but you may be called to serve the needs of another by your compassion, mercy, consolation, forgiveness, or humility. When you find yourself being present to the needs of the poor, the homeless, the forgotten, the unforgivable, the estranged, then you are allowing yourself to be servant, not the judge, but the humble servant being and bringing Christ to them by your words, deeds, attitude, actions and love.

 

WEDNESDAY OF HOLY WEEK – Using the sense of Awe, do you try and make sense out of Jesus’ actions, or do they leave you in a sense of awe because you can not explain or understand how He can do what He did out of complete and unselfish Love? That is so hard for us to believe, understand or imagine, but if we are truly His followers, it is not impossible for us to imitate.

Do you believe this? Get ready, the Triduum is coming and if you are still trying to understand Jesus, you will truly not understand Him in these coming days, so get ready, be open and allow Him to speak to your heart. He will stretch it, open it, embrace it and return His mark of love on it.

 

HOLY THURSDAY – Using your sense of sight, can you be present and allow yourself to experience the humility of being a servant and serving the needs of others as Jesus did in the Washing of the Feet? Or can you use your sense of taste and perhaps as you receive the Holy Eucharist in the Commemoration of the Last Supper, reflect on how Jesus gave us of Himself to His apostles at the Last Supper and continues to give of His real presence today in every celebration of the Mass? This is Jesus’ real presence, His true Body and Blood, not a symbolic representation, but the real deal. Taste and see the goodness of the Lord…..

 

GOOD FRIDAY – Jesus dies on the cross. We hear Him being condemned, crucified and dying on the cross. We know that He did nothing to deserve such cruel and terrible treatment, but we also know that He willingly, selflessly and lovingly accepted His fate so that we may live forever in His and His Father’s love. Are you listening? As you venerate the holy cross, are you allowing yourself to be present at the cross to tell Jesus how much you love Him and how sorry you that your sins are the cause for His suffering? Not just do you hear, but also are you listening when He says “Father forgive them for they know not what they do”? He was talking about you and me, not just His persecutors. He forgives us when we say we are sorry, do you listen when He tells you that He forgives and loves you or do you just walk away?

 

HOLY SATURDAY – We celebrate the joy of the resurrection. We celebrate all of our senses in that we have the blessing of the fire, the lighting of the paschal candle and the lighting of the congregation’s candles, the proclamation of the Exultet, the Liturgy of the Word, the blessing of the Holy Water to be used at the baptisms of those being received into the Catholic faith that evening, and to be sprinkled on those at Mass reminding them of their baptismal call and promises, the Confirmation and the reception of Holy Communion by those entering the faith and the congregation. We are truly a resurrection people. We proclaim the Gloria and the Alleluia again to celebrate this great mystery. Lift you voice and proclaim the great things that the Lord has done, they are marvelous in our eyes. Let us fully be present to this great and glorious gif

 

Glimpse of God for the week of March 18, 2018

I apologize for the lateness of this week's Glimpse of God.

 

 

This weeks Glimpse of God comes from a variety of eye opening experiences. It is in and through these experiences, that I have been able to see how God reveals  Himself and how, through that revelation, I have come to be transformed and renewed in His love.

 

Some of these experiences are: speaking to a cousin who is still grieving over the loss of her dad, and having to sell his house, the very same house that she grew up in; a friend who is facing the challening and difficult task of having to possibly retire earlier than she expected due to the stress of her job and toll that it is taking on her body, another friend who lost her sister suddenly due to the flu and the devastation that she feels because they were so close, a good friend who is enduring the pain of metatastic colon cancer and has decided not to undergo any treatment, and my sister who despite her many and serious challenges, never gives up or seeks self pity, but rather manages to  tie another knot on the rope so that she can keep holding on.

As I reflect on the above conversations that took place and how I was informed of what was happening in the lives of those I love, I find myself often in prayer. I am praying for all of those who I call family and friends, who are suffering greatly and in need of  strength, hope and courage so that they may continue to carry their crosses as they seem to be getting only heavier.

My personal transformation and renewal has come as I have been gifted with their trust as they shared their story, their pain, their hope and their desire. 

Every person has a cross to carry and each person's cross is a heavy cross to them. We cannot, nor should we, compare our cross with that of another, thinking that theirs is not as heavy as ours or that ours is a greater burden than theirs.  We all have gifts and graces that God has instilled and bestowed upon us, and it is through God; His graces, His gifts and His love,  that we are able to carry our crosses and help others carry theirs.

Since this is late, and since I could not publish a glimpse last week due to computer issues that carried themself through to today, I am not going to offer daily reflections, but rather offer a prayerful suggestion.

Winter is coming to an end as of today, reflect on those areas of your life, the cross that you carry, and ask God to show you, if you don't know or are unable to recognize, the ways that you have died to self and have become a greater, stronger beacon of His presence to others in your life. What area of your life, your heart, have you been stretched and have allowed His healing presence in? Do yo see youself as a wounded healer?  God does.

Another suggestion is: Since spring starts tomorrow, Tuesday, relfect on those areas of your life that are springing up with new life and are calling you to think, act, behave, or pray differently, and say a prayer of thanksgiving.

Another sggestion: Summer has to follow the spring. As you reflect on the areas of your life that are springing up with new life, look and reflect on how much spiritual, emotional, and physical work that you do to be the best person that you can be, the best person that God has created you to be and knows that you can become. As you look back on the work that you've do to be your best, take time to rest in His presence and relax in  His Love. Take some RnR so that you can be renewed, refreshed and rejuvenated. Take time to enjoy the summer of your spiritual journey.

One more suggestion: As you have already figured the theme of my suggestions out, there is only one more season to reflect on and that is autumn or fall. 

the beauty of this season is how the leaves change colors,the trees are full, there is more of a breeze in the air and the weather is not hot nor cold, but in the middle.  As you reflect on the joy of the season of thanksgiving and color, take a moment or many moments and rcall how you have been color to others. God offers us and invites us to be color to others. His colors are those of  compassion, mercy, healing, peace, joy and happiness. How have you brought color into the lives of others? How have others brought color into your life?

God wants to bring color, lots of color into our lives. He has the best colors, ready to use and

 in abundance for us. We jsut need to be ready to paint, get paint on us and help others paint so that when God is finished, we will see the beauty of His rainbow of color in ourself,  and in others.

His rainbow is His promise that He loves us, that He will always be with us and that He will never leave us. He is our hope. How can we be hope for another whose rainbow is without color?

Go and remember that you are never too old to color or too young to know how

Glimpse of God for March 4, 2018

 

My Glimpse of God comes from time. (As we prepare to set our clocks ahead next weekend and we lose an hour of sleep)

Time is a precious gift. What is time? It can be seen in seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, year, etc. We often find our self-looking at our watch or clocks to see what time it is so that we know when something is either going to begin or end, or where we need to go and be. There are times in our life that we celebrate and there are those that we mourn, there are times that we are fearful of and times that we face with all the courage and conviction that we can muster. Time is an experience where we not only see where it has passed and realize that we cannot get it back, but also where we can see ahead and not know how it will unfold. We are given time here on earth to live and become the best person that God has created us to be.

From the beginning of time God has been continually showing Himself to His people, revealing to His people His presence and calling them to take their time and use it to Worship and adore Him alone. God’s time is not our time. We sometimes waste time or overbook our time. We watch time pass us by and then we get bored and wish time would hurry up. I would say that many of us do not take the time to appreciate God in the experiences of our life and the lives of those that we encounter and surround us.

Next weekend we are going to set our clocks ahead 1 hour for daylight savings time. What do we gain by setting our clocks ahead 1 hour? Certainly not more sleep or energy when we wake up, but rather more sunlight for the days ahead.

When I think of daylight savings time in the light of my faith, I come with a few similarities. For instance; when we are in the previous mode  we are usually journeying through the winter season, where it is darker longer. This isn’t a bad darkness but rather a period where God is planting and preparing for things to flourish and grow. It is a necessary time if creation is going to be what God wants it to be. It is the same for us. Although it is difficult and challenging we need to accept those dark, barren times in our life so that we can recognize the light and the newness that will soon become ours. Everything becomes a matter of perspective and balance with the darkness, light and many shades of gray.

The glimpse of God is how we recognize, reverence and honor the gift of time that God has given us.  No one is promised tomorrow so carpe diem (those that know Latin!) and for the rest of us “Seize the day”!

Reflections of time…….

 

Sunday  - Today honor, reverence and appreciate your time with God. During this Lenten season, seek God’s wisdom to discern how you can grow in a greater and deeper relationship with Him, and be a greater reflection of His presence to others.

 

Monday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time with family and friends. Time goes quickly, children grow and friends move, appreciate all of these many blessings today for only God knows their destiny of tomorrow. No one knows when their time on this earth will run out so before regrets settle in, bless all of those whom God has placed in your life. Forgive those who have offended you, seek forgiveness from all you have offended. Ask for God’s healing and peace in those areas of your life where you are broken so that you may become whole.

 

Tuesday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time spent with your self, you are your best company. One is never alone, but at times may feel lonely. Today honor your alone time as a gift from God to be in communion with Him, His Son Jesus and our Blessed Mother Mary. Don’t run away or be afraid of the quiet but invite it, embrace it allow it to transform you as you listen to the gentle whisper of God speaking to your heart.

 

Wednesday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time in and with God’s creation. Go out into the world and see it in all of its beauty, magnificence and splendor. God has given us His creation to take care of so that it may flourish. We are all called to build up His kingdom here on earth. As we learn to appreciate and honor all of God’s creatures in His creation, let us remember that we are all created to work together to be God’s presence in the world.

 

Thursday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time as you work. Work satisfies us, compliments us and allows us to use the talents and gifts that God has given us. Today, look at your work as an instrument that God has given you to help be His beacon of light, love, and understanding to those around you, and allow it to be a source of humility, peace and joy.

 

                       

Friday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time with Christ on the cross. He suffered and died for you on the cross, spend time in quiet gratitude with Him. We are all called to carry our crosses, yet we think that we need to carry them alone. We are never alone. Christ walks with us and just as Christ accepted help from Simon of Cyrene, we too are called to accept help when the cross seems too heavy. Surrender and acceptance are characteristic of a true follower of Jesus. We must surrender our will as Jesus did so that God can do what is best in and through us and we can openly accept the many graces and blessings that God wants to share with us.

 

Saturday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time in prayer for all of those who have entrusted their needs, desires, prayers, hurts, and pains to you. When we can take our personal prayer time with God and offer it up for others, we are acting in a very humble , selfless and compassionate way. When others entrust their needs and prayer to you they see in you the presence and spirit of God that enables them to ask you for prayers. This may seem easy, but when one truly feels the needs, pains and prayers of others, their empathy draws them in a closer union with Mary our great intercessor, and to her Son Jesus

 

Glimpse of God for the wek of February 18and 25th , 2018

I apologize for the lateness of my weekly Glimpse of God. My computer completely gave up and it was unable to be repaired, so it had to be replaced. I also am preparing for surgery on Thursday so my reflections will hopefully offer enough for you to reflect on for                the next two weeks. 

 

This week's Glimpse of God comes, once again, our golden retriever, Clover and the Sisters at the Assisi House. Both yesterday and today,Clover, our 75 lb golden retriever visited the Sisters at Assisi house and was an instrument of transformation, inspiration and a source of magic.  As soon as we walk into Assisi house, Clover is like a magnet that attracts the Sisters from every direction, and when they come to pet her, talk to her, or give her treats, she just sits there for as long as the Sister needs her to be there.  Clover, although a very excitable dog, when she arrives at Assisi, knows or intuits that she needs to be still.  When the Sisters approach her, she doesn't run away, she sits and waits for them. When the Sisters are walking with their walkers, Clover will walk along side of them. When there is  Sister that is physically challenged, due to bad eye sight, or the inability to speak, or the inability to communicate, Clover will sit or lay in front of the Sister and be present to her. It is a moment of personal transformation becuase it seems like Clover is communicating with the Sister in a way that only the Sister can understand. Clover has aslo been known in intuit when a Sister was not feeling well and she wanted to be right there for her. She senses when someone is not feeling well or when something is wrong and when this happens, we follow her instinct.        

The glimpse that comes to me is that God doesn't pull us ahead or leave us alone or behind, but rather walks along side of us on our faith journey. We often think that we walk our dogs, in that we know what direction to go in and thus we are in control. Yet when it comes down to it, the dogs in our life give us the direction that we need to walk in. They, by their unconditional love, forgivenenss, their joy to see us, and their inability to hold a grudge,  are a reminder from God of how we are called to be and how we should act. When we try to do things on our own and forge ahead leaving God in the dust, it is like the dog got off the leash. We break away and run and we even try to hide, but yet if we stay still, calm down and remember that God is a living and loving God, He will e right where we left Him. We can run from God, but God does not run from us, we can try to hide from Him, but He sees all of our hiding places, we can pretend that we are invisible, but God knows that we are His visible and shining witness in His Kingdom.

As a loving and patient Father, God waits for us to return to Him and humbly try again, this time with His help and guidance.

There are times when we walk behind God and we don't even try to move, but rather we choose to stay stuck because it is easier and less frightening. We fear moving ahead because we don't know what lies ahead and that scares us. God waits for us to try, not to make big leaps but rather to take baby steps toward Him and His will for us.

There are times when we don't even see God, we fear that He has left us and that is why things are going badly for us. We blame God for all the  bad things that are happening to us. We blame Him for the times when He didn't answer our prayers, for the times when the answer that He gave wasn't the one we wanted to hear, and for the times that He just said NO.

Yet, in our life, on our faith journey, if we are open and honest, we are given the grace to  recognize that God walks along side of us, in our pains and struggles, in our joys and in our laughter, in our births and in our deaths. God feels every pain and joy that we feel and lets us know that in all times and in all seasons of our life. He is present to and with us.

Clover walking with, along side of, or just sitting in the presence of the Sisters, is a reminder that God is always with us, sometimes He is quietly sitting with us or walking with us, at our pace, on our journey. We have nothing to fear, nothing to back away from, or run from, but rather He gives us the confidence and assurance, that as long as we trust Him, no harm will come to us that will separate us from Him.

Clover is an intuitive dog and the Sisters are animal lovers. For some, like Sister Angela, who have been afraid of dogs, or for those who have always loved dogs or for those who grew up with dogs, but    They are present to each other together without fear. God is asking us to do the same; He said fear not, I am with you always, That is God's promise.

This week, let us recognize the times when we are not walking along side of Him, but rather  are walking ahead or behind Him. Let us also recognize when we choose to walk with God and He, with us, as a loving Father walks along side of His child.

Sunday - Today, as you rejoice in the beauty and love that surrounds you, ask God to shower His blessings and graces upon you as you begin the new week nourished by His Body and Blood. Ask God for the courage and self determination to be the Body of Christ in all that  you do at work, at home and in your community.

Monday - Today, if there are times when you are tempted to run ahead and try to do things your way, ask God for the grace to recognize that only with His guidance, can you truly grow, learn and make the right choice. Pray for a greater insight and a slower pace.

Tuesday  - Today, if you feel overwhelmed by your fears, your mistrusts and your challenges, ask God for His nudge and courage take one small step at a time. Seek to walk  a steady pace in shoes and not to stumble in flip flops.

Wednesday - Today, if there are times when you feel abandoned and don't see God in the midst of your pain and suffering, pray and trust that even in the silence and stillness, God was and is ever present. Ask for a greater trust in God who knows your every desire, sees the depth of your heart, and answers your every prayer.

Thursday - Today, if there are times when you feel that God has appointed you as judge and ruler and you dismiss the feelings and experiences of others, in humility seek the compassion and mercy of God and extend it another. Ask for the gift of blinders so that you can accept the humanity of others in a spirit  of humility, mercy, compassion and love.

Friday  - Today, if you are tempted to see yourself in a negative light because of your sinfulness, ask God to shine His light into your heart so that you can see in a greater light, how you are  created in His image and likeness. Light your candle so that it may shine before all.

Saturday - Today, if you feel worn out and lifeless because of the this week's many challenges and responsibilities, ask God to refesh and renew you. Close your eyes and see yourself resting in God's His loving embrace.

As my front license plate reads"Lord help me to be the person my dog thinks I am"

May we all try to be the compassionate, loving, caring, fun and joyfilled persons that God created us to be. May we never forget that as a Sister of 90 can overcome her worse fear of dogs and become best friends with Clover, that we are all called to surrender our fears so that we can recognize the power and strength of God's grace through our newly experienced courage, trust and peace.  God wants us to walk with Him without fear, but rather with a joyful , trusting, excited heart. Who are you walking with?

 

 

Weekly Glimpse of God, February 12, 2018

 

This week’s glimpse of God is that of a very special Franciscan sister who not only was a glimpse of God but also the love, joy, humor, presence, fortitude, perseverance, humility and faithfulness of God.

Sister Angela, OSF was a nun who was in her 90s but had the attitude, disposition and wit of someone much younger!

She suddenly passed away last night and it was a great shock to all, especially the sisters in her community.

Clover, our therapy dog, visits with the OSF community each Sunday and Sister Angela was one of her favorites. Over a year ago, Sister Angela confided in us that she was deathly afraid of dogs because she had been bitten when she was a child. Sister Angela, with Clover’s help, conquered her fear and was able to greatly enjoy the visits of Clover, giving her treats, kisses and petting her. Sister Angela called Clover her “Miracle” and giggled when Clover was with her…….a life changing experience for Sister Angela (and us)!

To see the joy and happiness with Sister Angela when Clover visited was amazing and inspiring

We will greatly miss Sister Angela (as will Clover) but we were blessed to be part of the “Miracle” and know that Sister Angela is with the loving embrace of God in the company of Mary and the Saints.

Rest in peace, Sister Angela

As we begin new week, a week that celebrates the gift of love both in Ash Wednesday, where we are reminded to repent and believe in the Good News, that of God ‘s great love for us, and in Valentine’s Day, where we celebrate the gift of love for each other. In both instances, it is God’s love for us that is the foundation of our experience of love: our love for God, others and self.

As we realize every day that only God knows when He will call any of us back home to Himself, let us appreciate, be grateful and recognize how blessed we are for all those in our lives and how their  presence is a blessing and a gift from God.  Let us also take the time to remember those who have gone before us in faith, hope and love: our parents, our grandparents, our spouses, our children, our siblings, our extended family members and our friends. As we remember them, let us offer a prayer of gratitude to God for the gift of their presence in our life. Let us reflect on how their presence changed, transformed, and touched our life and made us the better person that we are today. With God’s mercy and compassion, let us forgive those whose memory causes us pain, but in love we seek to forgive and ask forgiveness.

SUNDAY – “A”……AUTHENTIC

What does it mean to be authentic? Do you see yourself as an authentic person? In the people that surround you and that you encounter on a regular basis, do you recognize their authenticity and how it has influenced you? One does not have to be a religious sister to be authentic; one only has to possess and recognize the love of God in their life and strive to be faithful to that love.

For today, look within and ask for the grace to recognize how authentic you are and how your authenticity influences and inspires others to be their best authentic self before God and others

MONDAY – “N”……NOTABLE

A saint was a sinner who strived to love God in their everyday life and did the ordinary things of life in an extraordinary way. For some that meant bearing their cross without complaining or helping others without the need for recognition, they sought to live and serve their God and neighbor in a spirit of humility, love and compassion. Being extraordinary or notable reminds me of Sister Angela and how she carried her cross of illness without complaining, but rather when she saw Clover, she became a beacon of joy and laughter. She was able to see past her pain and suffering and allowed Go to embrace her through our dog Clover. She overcame her deep fear of dogs at 90 years old and from that day on she found a new joy amid her pain and discomfort. To me that is an extraordinary, notable person.

For today, in a spirit of humility, look within and ask for the grace to recognize how notable or extraordinary person you are. Ask for the ability to recognize the things that you have done and continue to do that are remarkable. We are all called to build up the Kingdom of God here on earth and there are times that in that building we have to do or are called to do things that are challenging and difficult. It is in that building that our humility is challenged and our ego can be inflated, but with the grace of God we can and are able to put things in perspective and do God’s work.

TUESDAY – “G”……GENUINE

We are all called to be our genuine self before God, self and others. Being honest is a grace and gift from God. The temptation to be dishonest is always there, but God’s grace is there to overcome it. When we encounter an honest person, it can sometimes be painful if their honesty with us is for our own good and given out of and in love.

For today, look within and ask for the grace to recognize how honest you are with yourself, God and others. Is your honesty used as a weapon to hurt others or a tool to build them up? Honesty if used as a tool can help others become their best self, the self that God created them to be and knows that they can become. Honesty and being genuine are great qualities to possess. How rich are you? What do you hold as important before God, self and others? Does whatever you hold as important make you a more genuine person?

WEDNESDAY – “E”…….ENTHUSIASTIC, wholehearted, passionate, aflame on fire, excited…..

These are some of the words that come to mind when I think of not only Sister Angela, but also all the Sisters at Assisi House. They exude their joy for life, their love for God and neighbor each and every time we encounter them either in the hall as we walk with Clover, in the chapel at Mass or in the dining room as we assist in serving them at supper time. They are always a joy to behold. Their joy is contagious and Sister Angela definitely caught it.

For today, look within and ask for the grace to recognize what makes you enthusiastic. What are you passionate about and how do fulfill your passion? Being passionate in faith means being full of God’s love and sharing that love with others in and through your words, deeds, actions, attitudes and behavior.

THURSDAY – “L”…LOVING

What is love and how do you love? How loving are you? Do you find that you are not as loving as you would like to be? How can you change that? Do you want to change that? Being a loving person is a choice. Do you choose to be a loving person or a bitter person?  Being a loving person amidst pain and suffering can be a challenge and maybe even an obstacle. God gives us the grace to overcome obstacles and accept challenges. The Church gives us this great season of lent so that we can grow in grace, and stand firm in the good news of His great love for us, so that we can continue to overcome the obstacles that are placed in our path to defeat us and make us be unloving, uncaring and bitter people. This lent, choose to give up the bitterness or any other unloving attitude and choose to embrace mercy, compassion and life.

For today, look within and ask for the grace to recognize how loving a person you really are and thank God for this great gift. In a world where hatred and indifference is chosen over acceptance, compassion and mercy, being a loving person is a risk and a call to be courageous. Recognize and thank God that you have been given the gift of courage and have taken the risk to stand out in His name.

FRIDAY – “A” ……….ADMIRABLE

I admire you….When you look in the mirror, do you ever hear God telling you that? If you can, you still doubt it because you don’t know or can’t imagine why. God highly regards you, loves you as His beloved child and has chosen you to be His follower.

For today, look within and ask for the grace to recognize how admirable you are and the many ways that you are admired. You are a gift and inspiration to many and that is because God dwells within you.

SATURDAY – “TF”…… TRUE FRANCISCAN

Sister Angela was truly a great Follower of Saint Francis, Bride of Christ and Servant of God. She lived a life of simplicity, compassion, joy and service. She loved God, herself and others with a heart that was expanded by her love for Christ and her own passion, filled with God’s grace and open to hear God’s voic

Glimpse of God for the week of February 4th

EAGLES!!!!! SUPER BOWL CHAMPIONS!!!!!!

Of course, what else would the topic be for this week?

The Eagles football team is playing today in the Super Bowl, this day, February 4th, is a day that will be remembered as one of unity, mutual support, determination and sportsmanship of both the players and fans of the city of Philadelphia, as well as nationwide. It has also been a source of great inspiration to all of Philadelphia; the avid sports fans as well as those who have been unexpectedly drawn in by the excitement and thrill of our very own football team achieving the greatest honor a football team can accomplish:  WINNING THE SUPERBOWL AND TAKING HOME THE VINCE LOMBARDI TROPHY.

The team was not expected to be competitive this year, however, they surprised us all!  So many times we have seen professional ball players be aloof to their fans or face legal issues but this team is different. They personify the aspect of teamwork and supporting one another in good times and bad. They have fun and that is apparent in all of the news coverage and many photos.

Recently, I was informed that members of the team had met a child being treated at a hospital in Philadelphia for significant medical issues.  The team actively embraced the child and spent significant time with him! Imagine, these are professional athletes showing true compassion and concern and humility ……..quality individuals and role models on so many levels!!!   Nick Foles wants to be a minister when he retires! God has called Him and He is ready to respond, can we say the same?

SO, as we prepare for a week that could include a super bowl parade in Philadelphia, let us take time to thank God for the team that has represented His presence of being good role models of compassion, support, encouragement and selflessness to their fans, the city and those in need. But let us not lose sight of where God is, has been and will continue to be. He resides in the lives and hearts of all of us as His beloved children.  I believe that as you journey through the week , the various reflections will no only help you  grow as a more prayerful person, but will also help you to see that when one plays on a team, as a true teammate, a good role model, a mentor, these qualities shine through. We are all members of God's team. We are all members of the Christian faith that calls us to build each  other up, strenghten each other and see the good in each other. I believe that the Eagles strive to exemplify these qualities on and off the field.

SUNDAY,  “E” = Empathetic

We are all called to extend empathy towards others. As followers of Christ and God’s beloved children, we are given the grace to walk with others through our care, concern, prayers and presence.

As you begin a new week, look to those in need, not to pity them, but rather to extend God’s compassion. Ask God to show you how you can be His instrument of empathy, care and kindheartedness and pray for the grace to respond. Empathy requires humility but rewards you with peace and spiritual fulfillment.

 

MONDAY “A” = Agile

Do you consider yourself agile? Have your ever considered yourself as being spiritually agile?

To discover the answer to this question, I suggest that in your prayer, ask yourself and God if you are swift to answer His call or invitation to be the best person that you can be? Do you see yourself as one that is responsive to God’s call to serve Him by serving the needs of others? Does living out your faith come easily, are you on fire or do you feel as though your fire has become a little spark? Do you believe that God is with you, that He loves you unconditionally and that you are His beloved child? Can you imagine that He wants your spark to become a fire that draws others to want to know Him better through you?

As you journey through the beginning of the workweek, ask God to increase your desire to be an instrument that draws others to Him. Ask for the grace to allow Him to take and make your sparks more like a great fire of love, faith and devotion, that draws other to love Him more dearly, see Him more clearly and follow Him more nearly in and through your example.

 

TUESDAY, “G” = Grateful

Do you have a grateful heart? Do you find that you have much to be grateful for? Do you remember to thank God for the gift of the very next breath that you take, the gift of a new day, the gift of family and friends, colleagues and community that surround and embrace you, the gift of your crosses that have strengthened you, made you a better and more empathetic person and have drawn you closer to Christ, the gift that has been implanted in you of a deeper love and concern for others, for the gifts of mercy, compassion, forgiveness, peace and joy that being a follower of Christ has made you a recipient of?

In your prayer today, reflect on the gift of gratitude that God has given you. Pray always for a grateful heart and seek to spread that desire to others especially those who are struggling and cannot recognize any reason to be thankful or grateful. Today, as you encounter family, friends, coworkers, neighbors, community members and even the stranger, take time to sincerely thank them for some quality that you recognize in their presence that has made you appreciate them more and has allowed you see God more clearly in them.

WEDNESDAY, “L” = Loving

Do you think that you are a loving and kind person? What does it mean to be a loving person?

Do you think that it means being perfect?  Being a loving person begins with desire and completes with fulfillment. If one desires to be a loving person, a desire that can only originate with and from God, and seeks to follow through on that desire, can be a very loving person. Love is of God, finds its origin in God and grows only through God’s grace. In our sinful nature, that nature that Jesus died on the cross to redeem, God loved us into being and calls us to love in return. It is in our loving, that of God, self and others, we grow in a habit to love, to seek the good in others, to forgive others, to reach out seeking forgiveness and to bind the wounds and be God’s healing instrument of love.

So today, as you communicate and interact with others, seek love. Look for love, that of the presence of God in those with whom you interact with and see how they interact with you.

Do they see the love of God within you, in your presence, surrounding you in and through your words, attitudes, actions, and deeds?

A truly loving person sees the positive before recognizing the negative, sees the good before pointing out the bad, recognizes and embraces that we are all God’s beloved sons and daughters, sinners as well, before judging and casting out.

What the world needs now is love sweet love……..be that love today.

 

THURSDAY, “E” = Esteemed

It is tough to accept being esteemed by others. It seems more like an ago trip than a trip on humility highway. Yet as Christians, who truly seek to follow Christ and bring others to know Him better, we can be esteemed by others and that is not a bad quality, if it doesn’t go to one’s head.

Who do you hold in high esteem? Why? Who holds you in high esteem? And why?

For today, take a look at whom you hold in high esteem and look at the reasons?

If they are God centered, have brought you to know God better, and have helped you grow in your relationship with His Son and our Mother Mary, then thank God for such a great gift.

If others hold you in true genuine God centered esteem, ask God to show you how you can improve, build on, grow in His love, the very love that has attracted others to Him through you.

 

FRIDAY, “S” = Selfless

Being selfless means being other centered and not selfish. It can be hard to be selfless when others seek to be more selfish and self centered. One cannot be God centered if they are always looking at what they can get, acquire, own or have. God wants us to grow and become the best persons that we can be, the best person that He created us to be, but yet we get in the way of what God’s will is for us when we seek to have things our way and not His.

Jesus died on the cross for us. It was a free selfless act. He chose to die for us and when we suffer, when we are wounded, He is dying with us as we die to self.  When we unite our pain with His, when we choose not to be bitter, but rather to forgive, then we are being selfless.

For today, look at the many ways that you are selfless: as a parent, as a spouse, as an employee, and ask God for the grace to grow in that humility and love that has placed His will first before any selfish will of yours.

 

SATURDAY, “1” = One

There is only 1 God, 1 you, 1 eagles team, and 1 chance for them to win the super bowl today.

We are all given special gifts and talents by God to be used to glorify and praise Him. Let us pray that the Eagles players take this opportunity to glorify God by playing their best and coming together as a team to win. Let us seek to see the good in both teams during the low times and in the high times. Let us not seek to diminish the other team by mean and degrading words or behaviors, for when we do that we are not giving glory to God. Enjoy the game!!!

 

Glimpse of God for the week of January 28, 2018

 

My Glimpse of God comes from time. Time is a precious gift. What is time? It can be seen in seconds, minutes, hours, days, months, year, etc. We often find our self looking at our watch or clocks to see what time it is so that we know when something is either going to begin or end, or where we need to go and be. There are times in our life that we celebrate and there are those that we mourn, there are times that we are fearful of and times that we face with all the courage and conviction that we can muster. Time is an experience where we not only see where it has passed and realize that we cannot get it back, but also where we can see ahead and not know how it will unfold. We are given time here on earth to live and become the best person that God has created us to be.

From the beginning of time God has been continually showing Himself to His people, revealing to His people His presence and calling them to take their time and use it to Worship and adore Him alone. God’s time is not our time. We sometimes waste time or overbook our time. We watch time pass us by and then we get bored and wish time would hurry up. I would say that many of us do not take the time to appreciate God in the experiences of our life and the lives of those that we encounter and surround us.

When I think of the winter time in the light of my faith, I come with a few similarities. For instance when we are in the previous mode and we are usually journeying through the winter season, where it is darker longer. This isn’t a bad darkness but rather a period where God is planting and preparing for things to flourish and grow. It is a necessary time if creation is going to be what God wants it to be. It is the same for us. Although it is difficult and challenging we need to accept those dark, barren times in our life so that we can recognize the light and the newness that will soon become ours. Everything becomes a matter of perspective and balance, darkness, light and many shades of gray. The glimpse of God is how we recognize, reverence and honor the gift of time that God has given us.  No one is promised tomorrow so carpe diem (those that know Latin!) and for the rest of us “Seize the day”!

Reflections of time…….

 

Sunday  - Today honor, reverence and appreciate your time with God. During this winter season, seek God’s wisdom to discern how you can grow in a greater and deeper relationship with Him.

 

Monday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time with family and friends. Time goes quickly, children grow and friends move, appreciate all of these many blessings today for only God knows their destiny of tomorrow. No one knows when their time on this earth will run out so before regrets settle in, bless all of those whom God has placed in your life. Forgive those who have offended you, seek forgiveness from all you have offended. Ask for God’s healing and peace in those areas of your life where you are broken so that you may become whole.

 

Tuesday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time spent with your self, you are your best company. One is never alone, but at times may feel lonely. Today honor your alone time as a gift from God to be in communion with His Son Jesus. Don’t run away or be afraid of the quiet but invite it, embrace it allow it to transform you as you listen to the gentle whisper of God speaking to your heart.

 

Wednesday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time in and with God’s creation. Go out into the world and see it in all of its beauty, magnificence and splendor. God has given us His creation to take care of so that it may flourish. We are all called to build up His kingdom here on earth. As we learn to appreciate and honor all of God’s creatures in His creation, let us remember that we are all created to work together to be God’s presence in the world, and to build His kingdom here on earth.

 

Thursday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time as you work. Work satisfies us, compliments us and allows us to use the talents and gifts that God has given us. Today, look at your work as an instrument that God has given you to help be His beacon of light, understanding, reconciliation, and compromise to those around you, and allow it to be a source of humility, peace and joy.

 

                       

Friday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time with Christ on the cross. He suffered and died for you on the cross, spend time in quiet gratitude with Him. We are all called to carry our crosses, yet we think that we need to carry them alone. We are never alone. Christ walks with us and just as Christ accepted help from Simon of Cyrene, we too are called to accept help when the cross seems too heavy. Surrender and acceptance are characteristic of a true follower of Jesus. We must surrender our will as Jesus did so that God can do what is best in and through us and we can openly accept the many graces and blessings that God wants to share with us.

 

Saturday – Today, honor, reverence and appreciate your time in prayer for all of those who have entrusted their needs, desires, prayers, hurts, pains, to you. When we can take our personal prayer time with God and offer it up for others, we are acting in a very humble and compassionate way. When others entrust their needs and prayer to you they see in you the presence and spirit of God that calls them to ask. This may seem easy, but when one truly feels the needs, pains and prayers of others, their empathy draws them in a closer union with Mary our great intercessor, and to her Son Jesus.

Glimpse of God for the week for January 21, 2018

My glimpse of God comes from a source that brings me a deep sense of joy, makes me smile when my eyes behold it, reminds me that even in the midst of the severe cold of winter, the snow that accumulates, the frost on the windows, the lack of daylight and the lack of desire to be outside because I get cold too easily, he or she is still a picture of joy with a great smile to go with it.

What is this glimpse? This glimpse is that of SNOWMAN or SNOWWOMAN or SNOWCHILD.

When I was a child, the first thing that I did when it snowed and the snow was good for packing, was to go out and make a snowman. My snowman was as unique as I was. It would have a variety of things that could be found around the house to be used as his ears, eyes, nose, mouth, hands and shirt buttons. Then the topper would be his hat, hopefully like the one that Frosty wore, but in my case, any hat that I could find around the house would do. My snowman, depending on the cold and the packing of the snow, would have two or three big balls of snow. The biggest on the bottom, the next smallest would be his belly and the smaller would be his head. If it was too cold or the snow wasn’t packing snow, he would have a big belly and a small head. When I was done, I would look at he finished product and smile.

How can it bring me to see God more clearly? Does God work through such “made up” characters? I believe that God works through and with all of His creation and creatures. We are His greatest creation and when we seek to see His joy, in the small and big ways, and desire to bring it to others, than we are working in unison with Him in bringing about and building His Kingdom here on earth. We are all called to use the gifts that God has given us. Snow is a gift. We can complain about it, tolerate it, ignore it or use it to bring joy to children and the big kid in all of us.

I still smile today when I see children creating a snowman. I don’t think that the fun that I experienced making or building a snowman can be compared to anything else.

So if you come to our house during the winter months, your eyes will behold the many sizes and shapes of various snowmen, snowwomen, snow children, and even one snow dog,but we lack a snowcats . I am surrounded by various snow creatures that make me smile and remind me that even with the simplest gift, that of snow, God invites, allows and waits for me to be attentive and creative. I also believe that as people enter our home and smile, they are remembering something that brings them joy. I don’t ask whey they are smiling,

I can only imagine that it may be for the same reasons that I do.

So as we enter a new week of winter, although without snow according to the weather people, let us think of ways that we can bring a smile to another and strive to accomplish that task.

 

 

SUNDAY  - “S”  = Sincere

In all of interactions with others, our first thought is that we need to be sincere genuine and authentic as Children of God, followers of Christ. We cannot, should not interact with others, attempting to make them smile or bring them a sense of peace, happiness or joy, if we are not sincere in our reason and desire to help them. We cannot bring happiness to others if our message is just words and not from the heart. People who are suffering or unhappy for whatever reason, are not always looking to hear the right words, as much as they are looking for someone to be honest, sincere, and humble as they interact with them. People see through our deception, our false image, our need to make our self feel good at their expense, and our ego that thinks we are succeeding and fooling them. We don’t have to pretend that we are perfect, but we do have to be sincere when we meet another imperfect human being, just as we are, and seek to raise them up.

 

MONDAY – “N” = Not me

When we seek to help another to make them happy, it should not be about us. God will reward us, will show us that in our spirit of humility and selflessness, that we are being taken care of, that we are loved, and in our being loved, we are able to love others. As you go to help others today, go with the attitude that it is about them and that God will give you the words to speak. He will show you how to be present and to that person. He will also show you how with Him, it is about you and how you responded to His invitation to build another up, and not tear them down or ignore their plight.

 

TUESDAY – “O” = Open minded

When you reach out to others today, keep an open mind. One never knows what another is thinking or feeling, yet what they say can shock, surprise or hurt you. Keeping an open mind will allow you to see things better from their perspective, experience or circumstances. As you reach out to others in an attempt to help, remember that they are in a need and in that need, they are vulnerable, and when one is vulnerable, they tend to say or do things that they would not normally do or say.

 

WEDNESDAY  - “W” = Wise

Being wise or having wisdom is not something that one can fall upon; it has to be gained by personal experience and the ability to see things from another perspective. One of the gifts of the Holy Spirit is wisdom. Wisdom is a gift that allows us to make the right decision, as God would want us to do. When we strive to make another happy or help raise them up, then we are using the gift of wisdom. Wisdom differentiates the right motives from the wrong, and enables us to make a decision that goes in accord with the will of God and not our own. They say that wisdom comes with age. I believe that we mature the desire to make the right decision no matter what it may be.

As you seek to help another today, pray for the gift of wisdom so that you can see more clearly where and what God is calling you to say or do.

 

 

THURSDAY – “M” = Merciful

We are all called show mercy, just as God has been and continues to be merciful with us, we are called to share that gift with others. When you seek to make another happy, you are seeing beyond any weakness and looking to the heart. Being merciful is not something that we can take lightly. As we are weak, so too is our brother and sisters in Christ. When we seek to help others, we are seeing their need, not their weakness.

Today when you go to help another, remember that they might feel vulnerable, needy, and possibly stressed to the point of being angry. See past this and look to their heart.

 

FRIDAY – “A” = Awesome

God is awesome!!!!

His gifts are not only special, but awesome because they have been chosen just for us.

People have been placed in our life to show us that we are all God's chosen beloved children and that we are here to help support each other on our earthly journey. 

For today as you recall the many memories that bring you joy, like the snowmen do for me, offer a prayer of thanks to God for those memories. As you are placed in the lives of others and you want to help them recognize the awesomeness of God, don't just use words but let your heart speak. Let your heart speak of the love that it is filled with and that you want to share. Others will see the power, presence of the awesome God more clearly and with greater clarity. 

 

 

SATURDAY  - “N” = Newness

When we attempt to lift others up, we often find our self more lifted than the person that we hoped to help. God works with the hearts of His faithful and when our hearts are in the right place, He can work wonders. We expereince a newness . We experience a refreshing spirit that not only is uplifting, but also transforming. As I look at the many snowwomen,snowmen and snow children in my home, I experience a refreshing spirit of joy and happiness. No maatter what the day had or has in store, I believe that in and through the gifts that God showers upon me: His grace, His mercy, His peace, His unconditional love, these gifts transform me and invite me to transform the lives of others. So when I seek to help others, it is not my idea, but rather God speaking.

So today when you extend a helping hand to lift another up, remind yourself that it is God extending His hand to you and lifting you up so that you can do likewise. "For what you do to the least of my breathren you do unto me."

 My Glimpse of God for the week of January 7, 2018

 

My Glimpse of God for this week comes from various glimpses that came from special events, wonderful people and unique circumstances that I found myself involved in.  One might say that my glimpse is a gathering of many smaller glimpses that were surprising, uplifting and inspiring.

 

My first glimpse of the week came as I started my new position as Chaplain at Fair acres Geriatric Center.  My first workday was filled with many graces. The first one came to me as I was called to speak to a resident that called the suicide hotline. I spoke to him for a while and he assured me that he would call me if he thought that he needed to call the hotline again. I felt comfortable with his promise and left him with the assurance that I would be available at any time if he wanted to talk.

Another glimpse came from my supervisor afterwards when she came in to tell me that she, the nurse, his social worker and the resident were very pleased with the way I handled the situation and if I would be willing to see him on a weekly basis.

Another glimpse came as I handed out the prayer that I composed last week for the New Year to the daily Mass attendants at my parish. A few of them came up to me and gave me a hug and let me know that it was just what they needed to read. It helped them to see the New Year and its resolutions in a new light. It was a prayer that they could pray that would help them grow closer to God and gain a better spiritual insight to the person that God was calling them to be and the potential to become.

Another glimpse came to me as my husband and I met with a priest friend that I have known since high school, that I had not seen since he concelebrated at our wedding in 1998. Since our wedding he had been transferred various times and we had lost track with each other. When we caught up last evening, as friends we weren’t strangers, but friends who needed to play a little catch up but we had the backgrounds still deep in our memories of where we were then, and just needed to fill in some gaps as to where we are now. A great priest still, a wonderful friend and a great witness to the faith as he continues to lead students to Christ.

The week was filled with many glimpses of God in between the ones that I have mentioned. My husband, John and his awesome support, encouragement and love, our pawsome kids Clover and Cannoli who always are intuitive to my needs and there to make me feel better despite any physical limitations, and our family and friends that have all been supportive with phone calls and texts with my new endeavor and the apprehensions that go along with starting a new position in a field that only God would have chosen. I have been involved in parish ministry for over 27 years and if you had asked me if I ever thought that I would serve the geriatric population, my answer would have been no. It was not a population that I ever saw my self ministering to. God saw differently and I am very happy with His vision and plan. It is a great surprise and it is surrounded with wonderful and caring people.

Some words that would define this week and the glimpse that came would be surprises, gifts, reconnections and support.

So as you begin a new week in this New Year and we remember that as we celebrate the feast of the Epiphany, let us be mindful that we all have our gifts to share. God has given us special gifts that are unique to us, ones that we are called to share with others and not to selfishly hold on to.

What are your special gifts and talents that you have been blessed that you are being called to share? The wise men gave of their treasures to the Holy Family. They shared what they had and were called to, by God, for the Christ child. We might not have gold, frankincense or myhr, but we have our hearts, open and ready to receive the love of God so that we can share it with others in the forms of mercy, joy, happiness, compassion and peace. Christ’s gift to us was His free, complete and unconditional love. He gives us His love; as we accept His love we in turn are called to share it with others. That is our gift to Him.

 

SUNDAY – “S” –selfless

When we share our gifts with others, it is then that we are not being selfish, but selfless. We are giving a part of our self to another in trust, hope and confidence. Our gift is our treasure that when we share it we hope that it will be received. If our gift is mercy, peace, reconciliation, hope, prayer, or pardon, we want it to be taken seriously and appreciated. And when it is not, it hurts, but even in those circumstances, we cannot take it back or not share it again, because that is not what God does with us. He continues to freely offer His gifts to us because He knows our hearts and the best way to fill them, heal them, expand them, and strengthen them.

For today, are you ready to have your heart expanded? Do you need healing? Are you open to being made stronger?  Are you running on empty and need to be filled with His graces so that you can serve Him more faithfully?

 

MONDAY – “H” – happy

When we want to share a gift with someone, we are sharing a part of our self. Our gift is something that we honor and want to let others see why we honor it, what there is to honor in it and how to best honor it. If we have the gift of peace that we want to offer someone, we should offer it with a sense of happiness and not begrudgingly. Peace is a gift. Many people are not at peace, do not know what true peace is and are searching for peace. When we offer our gift of peace, we are offering a part of our self that Jesus has given us. We cannot be at true peace if that peace is not of Christ. When we are being the body of Christ to others, we are reaching out and offering the very peace that Christ freely offers us and so therefore we freely and happily should offer to others.

For today, are you ready to freely and happily offer your gift to another? Whatever your gift is, can you share it with a genuine sense of happiness?

 

TUESDAY – “A” – appreciation

Do you appreciate the special gift that you are in the sight of God and others? Do you respect, honor and cherish the person, the gift that you are? Do you recognize that others are gift and should be treated with respect, dignity and care?

For today, as you look into the mirror, try to see how much you are appreciated by God, how much He loves you, how much He cares about you, how much He wants to be in relationship with you because He thinks you are so special, and say thank you. Next take one person in your life that you may not have shown appreciation for and let them know that you do appreciate them, not for what they can do for you, bur rather for the person they are, God’s beloved child.

 

WEDNESDAY – “R” – respect

What does it mean to show or be respectful?  When you have a gift to share or when you recongize the giftedness of others, how do you respond? Respect means honoring the giver and the gift. God endows all of us with special gifts and talents that He would like us to shwre with others and when we choose to, we are respecting both God and self. When we choose to hold on to our gift out of selfishenss or ego, then we are disrespecting God and ourself.

For today, honor and respect yourself, your gifts, your talents and the person that God has created you to be. The week will include many surprises and opportunities to recognze and see God more clearly. Take them and use them to see how mauch God loves you and continues to shower you with His many gifts and blessings, graces and talents.

 

 

THURSDAY –“I” -Individual, unique, special, one of a kind.

That is you. You are God's creation, His special gift to others one that has many asepcts to share and use to build up His kingdom here on earth. How does that mek you feel? Do you think that everyone else is special but you don't see yourself as anything special? 

When god created yyou, He did so out of complete and unconditonal love. He did so that you could bless others with your many gifts talents, attributes, qualities and aspirations. 

For today, jot down what and how you see yourself as gift. what are  your talents, gifts that you so freely share with others? How do you inspire othes? How do you call others to be their better self? I can only imagine that your list will belong, pray and aks Go dot shwo you  how blessed you are and seek to share that part of yourself more freely , without reservation and with a feeling and sense of being blessed and a blessing.

 

FRIDAY -  “N” – nurturing

Do you believe that you are a nurturing individual? Do you try to build others up or do you try to tear them down? Do you offer spiritual guidance in and through your prayers, words and thoughts for others so that they can grow and become the best person that they can be? As a parent, sibling, or spouse, do you try to strengthen those you love, by they way you show your love, support, encouragement, and kindness?

For today, look at the ways that you are nurturing. Look at how you not only help others grow to become the best person that they can be and that God calls them to be, but also look at those who have nurtured you and have helped you become the person that you are now. Our ability to nurture comes from how we have been nurtured. Humans can fail at being nurturing, but God never fails, He is the perfect nurturing parent, Abba, Father.

 

SATURDAY – “G” – God –given

Life is God given. Our very breath is God given. Our loved ones are God given. You are God given to others; your spouse, your children, your family, your friends, your community, and your Church. Think of it, God has given you to others, not without thought, but He has carefully placed you in the presence of others because He knows what is best for you and how you can grow in relationship with Him and how you can help others, who choose to be in relationship with him, grow closer to Him. You have been chosen. God has a plan, a very special mission for you. He wants you to not only recognize that you are His child and that He loves you unconditionally, but He wants you to be His messenger and share that special message with those He has given to you. How does He want you to do that? By being, by bringing, by sharing love as best you can by your actions, deeds, words, attitude, gestures o

 

 

 

 

 

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